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Scripture Text (NRSV)

 

1 John 3:16-24

 

3:16 We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us--and we ought to lay down our lives for one another.

3:17 How does God's love abide in anyone who has the world's goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help?

3:18 Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.

3:19 And by this we will know that we are from the truth and will reassure our hearts before him

3:20 whenever our hearts condemn us; for God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything.

3:21 Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have boldness before God;

3:22 and we receive from him whatever we ask, because we obey his commandments and do what pleases him.

3:23 And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us.

3:24 All who obey his commandments abide in him, and he abides in them. And by this we know that he abides in us, by the Spirit that he has given us.

 

Comments:

I can see a wonderful opportunity in this text to use the metaphor of "the descent of love" into the our ordinary lives. The author of 1 John addresses Christian love not as a Spiritual ascent, but rather as an incarnational reality that address the bare facts of physical existance. Oscar Romero seems like a wonderful illustration of this "descent of love," as he journeyed from a life of study and prayer to a life of prayer through solidarity with those whose needs cried out to God from the streets of El Salvadore.


Date: 5/4/2003
Time: 7:19:10 PM
 

Comment

"Love" in this text seems to be removed from an emotion or feeling. It is a commandment, an action. We don't have the option as people of faith. Tom from MO


If it was easy to love as Jesus loved, would it have had to be a commandment? No, he does not command us to eat 3 meals a day, to sleep at night, etc., those are easy for us--but to love as he loves me????? WV Toni


Question: Which approach do you prefer:

Do we regard the two conditions of our hearts in v. 19-21 as an either/or regarding the condemnation of our hearts leading to dual conditions of the human spirit for us to consider based on either our acts of love or lack of love;

or are these verses regarded as a logical progression from receiving assurance when our hearts condemn us because we act in love, and therefore because of the removal of that condemnation having a boldness before God?

RevRick in SoGa


"Love in Action" has a nice ring to it for a sermon title. I intend to read beginning with the first verse of the third chapter which actually began last weeks lectionary text because I preached on the Luke passage last Sunday. A tie to Mothers Day is that our ancestery includes a trillion mothers from the time of Christ. Obviously, not all would be Christian mothers, but it does impact our thoughts when we contemplate the dynamics of the love in action that Jesus set into motion. Some have discovered that kind of love through mothers. However if our task is the bring the world to Christ more of us mothers and fathers must become the spiritual nurturers of non Christian families. Does the modern church still have a passion for love in action?


I am working with the title, "A Reader's Digest Version of the Ten Commandments." Obviously, John boils down the commandments to two key points, just as Jesus did: love of God, and love of neighbor. My fear in preaching such familiar themes is that everyone will nod their heads and agree that we ought to love God and neighbor. Therefore, I will probably do more illustration than exegesis. So, I'm looking for stories about love of God and love of neighbor. Anybody got any good ones? -Dale in Chattanooga


I was struck by connection of 1 John 3:16 and Gospel of John 3:16-17. We know love by this (1 John) -- God so loved the World (John) He laid down His life for us (1 John) -- He gave his only Son (John)

And we ought to lay down our lives for one another (1 John) so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life (John)

Let us love, not in word or speech but in truth and action (1 John) --...God did not send His Son ... to condem...but to save (John)

Pastor Sandy Texan


Dale in Chattanooga The Mother's day stories here on DPS are good and both would work well, for a sermon that ties mom, God and love together. Nancy-Wi


I left off my handle (TN Mack) on "Love in Action" contribution. I would like to add one more comment. The Cross as a symbol presents a good graphic and metaphor in descibing love in action. The verticle member of the cross reminds us of our reaching up to God as God reaches down to us with the message of agape love that is both transciendent and immanent. The horizontal member reminds us of the need to share God's love with our brothers and sisters who surround us in life. Also implied is the need for a balance. The cross is planted in the earth as reminder of our connection to the world reality of living in the flesh. When we lose that connection, we can become so mystical that we lose our connection with the present reality (example cults like Jim Jones and those mystics who committed suicide when the Hale-Bob comet passed by the earth). The top of the cross reminds us of our connectedness with God. When we do away with all piety, we shrink back to earth and become too humanistic in our thinking. Each end of the horizontal should remind us of the need to hold hands with our brothers and sisters all along our Christian walk to hold one another up. The alternative is to remove oneself from society and seek to be an island unto oneself.


OK - Greek scholars - is it "agape" or "filio"

sally in ga


Sounds like agape.

Sally


I prefer "festival of the Christian home" to "Mothers Day." I think this text is a good illustration in and of itself of what a Christian home is.

We lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters *in Christ*. It is not necessarily a nuclear family but a church family. That way all can participate whether or not they had good mothers, or whether or not they ever had children, or even if they had children who died ... or all those things that I think about when I think about how to preach on the 2nd Sunday in May.

Sally in GA


Sally - for the record, it's agape.

DD in CA


It is agape, but it is not a universal unconditional love, its focus is on the community of believers, the people of God and their loving relationship with one another. This is not the same love that is reflected in the two great commandments which seems to originate from below, from us to God and one another; itis a love from above which is expressed in the Crucified One and manifests itself in the new community.

tom in ga


I must say I prefer to keep the name "Mother's Day". The love of a mother is a wonderful thing. Certainly, some people had terrible mothers who did not love them. Others have not had children, or did have children who died. But these situations should not cause us to abandon a celebration of the love a mother, or of the many persons who have also shown us that love, including males as well as females. Help a survivor of a bad mother to see that God's plans call for a mother to love her children, and calls us to forgive those who do not, and to learn what "not to do" from their example. Help those who have not had children to not feel "put down" by the church, but to celebrate the ways we can all share God's love with each other. Help those who have lost children to feel loved and comforted and cared for. We can still do all of this in the context of Mother's Day. We also need to keep Father's Day as well. Anthony in VA


Stories for I John text? Love is a Verb (my sermon title)

I haven't recovered the source, but recall a story I read a few years ago that impacted me deeply. Some of the details are murky. If anyone knows this story and can supply the source or correct details, be my guest.

A young man named Donald was working the night shift on the reception desk at a downtown YMCA. He didn't notice two men who entered the office intending to rob him and the cash drawer. They beat him very badly and -- assuming he was dead, stuffed his body in the locker room. Several hours later he was discovered -- still miraculously alive (barely) -- and admitted to the hospital where he clung to life -- in and out of a coma -- for months.

By God's grace, Donald began to rally -- to a full recovery, minus the sight of one eye. He was able to give enough information that police could indict his assailants. Months later when the case came to trial, he requested custody of the two young men who assaulted him. They were brothers. He vowed to help them come to know the Lord and live accordingly. One brother did everything he could to refuse this act of grace and eventually landed in prison for several life terms. The other brother accepted the compassion of the man he had almost killed. He entered into rehabilitation programs, went back to school and on to college, and eventually graduated from medical school to specialize in ophtalmology.

Donald was able to demonstrate the love of Christ in laying down his life for these young men. Eventually Donald completed seminary and was ordained.

REVMMT in Pgh, PA


This may be my last contribution to this board (although this will only make my fourth in four years), because I'm leaving the ministry for a temporary/permanent leave of absence.

Anyway, the one thing I thought of while reading this passage was a line from the song, "Under Pressure," by Queen and David Bowie:

Love's such an old-fashioned word, And love dares you to care for the people on the edge of the night, And love dares you to change our way of caring about ourselves.

We tend to get stuck in a rut when it comes to love -- we love who we want, the way we want, and a Bronx cheer to anyone who dares to tell us we're wrong.

The only problem with it is, Jesus had to come along and screw everything up. "You have heard it said... but I say...."

RevRon in OH


To Dale in Chattanooga

A man went to a barber shop to have his hair and his beard cut as always. He started to have a good conversation with the barber who attended him. They talked about so many things and various subjects. Suddenly, they >touched the subject of God. >The barber said: "Look man, I don't believe that God exists as you say." > >Why do you say that?" asked the client. > >"Well, it's so easy, you just have to go out in the street to >realize that God does not exist. Oh, tell me, if God existed, would there be so many sick >people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be no >suffering nor pain. I can't think of loving a God who permits all of these things." > >The client stopped for a moment thinking, but he didn't want to respond so as to cause an argument. The barber finished his job and the client went out of the shop. Just after he left the barber shop he saw a man in the street with a long hair and beard (it seems that it had been a long time since he >had his cut and he looked so untidy). >Then the client again entered the barber shop and he said to the barber: > >"You know what? Barbers do not exist." > >"How can you say they don't exist?" asked the barber. "Well I am here and I am a barber." > >"No!" the client exclaimed. "They don't exist because if they did there would be no people with long hair and beard like that man who walks in the street." > >"Ah, barbers do exist, what happens is that people do not come to me." > >"Exactly!"- affirmed the client. "That's the point. God does >exist, what happens is people don't go to Him and do not look for Him. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world." Pastor Roger in WV


I don't know id that helped you or not Dale but its a good storie any way. The bible teaches us that we have not becuse we ask not. The Lord knows our needs before we ASK. So we must ask. the Lord wants a relationship with us and that is one way of getting it i guess lol. But the Lord knows our hearts . For with the heart does the mouth comfess. Are we confessing the love of God. Happy Mothers day to all, for we all have Mothers. So this is a day we all can rejoyce in. Pastor Roger in WV


DALE

Sorry so late. I am a late sermon writer. Here is a very personal illistration of love of neighbor. My 15 year old daugter is a patient at MD Anderson. She has been for 2 years. (full story to long to share) I write from there now. She was admitted 2 weeks ago, sicker than she had ever been. A new chemo drug had affected her worse that the stem cell transplant did. It was horrible. One mother; the mother of a boy who started treatment with us 2 years ago and whose son died a year ago, kept emailing me from Louisiana. "Do you want me to come?" I of course said "no, this will pass and you should not have to endure this fear again". 2 days later, as I stood at the nurses station asking about one of Kelly's medications, in walks Ranella. The very mom who endured watching her son die in this very place not even a year ago. She spent two days with us doing nothing but loving us. To love thy neighbor is to not wait to be asked to help. It is simply to help. Be there, LOVE. Causion here though. To just help is not to boldly tell others what to do. A fine line, but maybe an illistration you can use.

Tammy in Texas


quick clarification on my daughter. She got out of the hospital after that struggle..ended up here again Thurs. likely to go home Sun. Fever.

I think my sermon will focus on this text. I want to work through the "how do we love each other" thought. I find saying I love you comes easy for many Christians while acting lovingly is not as easy.

tammy in texas


So, why did we switch to "Festival of the Christan Home and not "Celebration of the Christian Woman." I like spending a day focusing on the contributions of women in the family, church, etc, whether they are mothers or not. a very healing option in my opinion. A Festival of the Family which springs from Mother's Day just negates the nurturing aspect of Fatherhood and makes a riddle out of Father's day. What becomes of Father's Day? Festival of the Christian paycheck? Pastor Melissa near Boston


Talk about a late sermon writer - heare I am Saturday night. "Tough Love - Reinvented" To love as Jesus loved, as Jesus commands, is Tough love - It requires a lot. And yet we gain so much.

Thanks Tammy in Texas for the very moving story.

Reverend KJ